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{September 28, 2009}   19 days and counting!!!!!

Hello all my wonderful wedding goddesses,

As you can tell, I’ve been a bit lax about updating the blog since getting engaged.  I will get better!  I’ve discovered that planning your own wedding is much harder than planning someone elses – mostly because 1) you are front and center for all family drama  & 2) the homework you usually give to the bride has to get done by you.  But I’m happy to report the Party goddess’s wedding will be a drop dead, eco friendly, vintage swanky coctail club affair!

As always I wish you love, laughter and happily ever after!!

Melissa (The future Mrs. G) ;o)



Hello my fabulous party people!

Here are some more photos of our awesome green & vintage wedding venue!  Like I said before, this place is the 1930’s Texas and Pacific waiting room in Fort Worth.  The rental money all goes to fund the Fort Worth mass transit system and it’s just amazingly beautiful!! Erich the love o’ my life is still wavering between 30’s gangster (Bugsy Siegal) & 30’s ballroom (Fred Astaire) dress for him and the groomsmen.  Either way, they’ll be cooler than the cat’s pajamas!! ;o)  More on our vintage song selection, dress, and decor later!  Until then, enjoy!

As always, I wish you crazy chicks Love, Laughter & Happily Ever After!

Melissa

Emerald Events & Weddings

www.emeraldeventsintl.com

info@emeraldeventsintl.com



Bonjour mes amis,

I must apologize to you.  Between planning my own wedding and those fabulous parties of others, I have been lax in keeping you up to date on our wedding details.  We’ll be getting married in October of this year.  Erich & I have decided  on a 1930’s supper cub atmosphere for the reception.  We went with this theme for several reasons. 

First – I am a self-proclaimed old movie addict.  I can quote you the entire script of Casablanca, The Philadelphia Story, & several other oldies but goodies.  I firmly believe  Cary Grant was, and will always be, the yummiest movie star ever.  I also salivate over vintage posters, clothing and books of the 30’s and 40’s.  And Erich, well he  just exudes classic style.  He is dinner jackets, Sinatra, and a brandy snifter.  If you don’t believe me, check out our engagement photos a few posts down =o).   I’ve also always loved black and white as a color scheme for a wedding  & it fits in really well with this them.

Secondly, we both felt it important to keep our wedding as cost- & eco-friendly as possible & going retro is a great way to do that.  Seriously, if I can’t pull off a wedding using techniques I preach to other brides, I have no right to be a wedding planner.  Instead of spending money on new clothes and jewelry, guests and the wedding party can raid their relative’s closets and thrift shops.  We’ll also be using a local caterer, bakery, and serving local wines and beer.  (I’ll be sharing more tips on accomplishing retro green weddings in subsequent posts).  

Third and most important, we both love a good costume party.  Our friends and family do as well.  Since we were getting married in October near Halloween, we thought it would be a great way to incorporate some costumes without going uber-Goth. (Note to Goth Goddesses everywhere.  It’s not that there’s anything wrong with Goth weddings, It’s just not our style) =o)  Within our friends, we have closet Flappers, Amelia Earharts, gangsters, and WWII soldiers just waiting for a reason to emerge and party like it’s 1939.

So ladies and gents, that’s how we arrived at our theme.  Enjoy our  inspiration photos I’ve collected over the past few months and I’ll get back soon to let you know how plans are going for our swanky affair!  I’d love to hear any comments, suggestions or questions you have about our wedding or vintage weddings in general.

Wishing you “Love, laughter & happily ever after….” (TM)

Melissa

www.emeraldeventsintl.com

 



Hello my fellow green goddesses-

Here is the long awaited Figure magazine article profiling myself as an eco-chic woman business owner. Yay for eco-chic chicas everywhere! =o) The theme greening continues to spread!

The bad news is you can only find these magazines in hardcopy in Catherine’s, Lane Bryant, and Fashion Bug stores AND this is their final issue ever (I just love this economy). The good news is they are in EVERY store across the US & Canada and will be for the next two months. So feel free to go in and grab one while you can =o)

And before anyone asks . . . yes, I did give them high-resolution, flattering headshots to use in the article. Apparently the photo editor to whom I had sent them got fired or was sent to cover the International Bellybutton Fuzz convention. Anywho0, the new editor decided to cut and paste a picture from my website instead of admitting they lost the photos in the employee upheaval. And that, ladies & gents, is how Melissa ended up looking like a copy of a copy of a photo of someone on the top 10 most wanted list.

Wishing you “Love, laughter & happily ever after. . . (TM),

Melissa (aka fuzzy green goddess) Wagner



Hello my wonderful party planners!  Sorry for the lag in blogs there.  Between the holidays, client’s parties, our engagement shoot & finding that perfect combo of vendors that scream “cool  and funky Partygoddess & hip and stylish Man o’ mine marry”, I’ve been busy!

I’ll be writing more soon about all the green happenings but I just had to share some of our awesome engagement photos.  Eleonore, my long time friend and photographer extraordinaire captured everything we wanted and more.  I wanted a distinct contrast – very classy & then casual photos.  We got that by dressing formally for the first two shots, then switching to white button down shirts and jeans at the last place.  I also wanted very unique backgrounds for each location.  We went with the canals at Las Colinas (a very Italian looking location), the Plaza Arts Center in downtown carrollton (where the owner Clarence Teng made my millenium by putting our name up on the marquee) and the Londoner Bar in Addison which has the most amazing red English telephone booth.  So without further ado . . . . Our photos ladies and gents!

Eleonore dishes about  our engagement session on her blog. Why not hop on over and read some more, my stylish readers =o)  And as always, remember Emerald Events & Weddings is here to help make your day as special as if it were my own!



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As I’ve said before in previous articles, being a good green host or hostess doesn’t mean you have to include granola hors d’oeuvres and a drum circle. You can throw an eco-friendly party worthy of the goddess Gaia without sacrificing style and fun. Below are my top ten suggestions for throwing a fantastic eco-chic soiree.
1. Electronic invitations – Using Evite.com to invite your guests is a great way to save trees & it’s a much easier way for people to correspond & collaborate with other party guests. As a plus, your friends get to write a sentence or two when they accept your invite. If you have talkative friends like mine, entire conversations can happen when someone RSVP’s.

2. Green decor – depending on your theme and color scheme, you can use a variety of edible and recyclable objects. From fall leaves & bright red apples in autumn to recycled china for a tea party, ideas are all around you. One of my favorite wines comes in a beautifully shaped deep blue bottle. I’ve kept several of these & I use them as vases all the time. Another reusable suggestion for summer soirees – try wheatgrass as a base with a bright potted flower or a vase with lemons and limes for contrast. Wheatgrass is great for you (you can harvest it after the guests go home) and looks amazing!

3. Sustainable tableware – Instead of throw-away plates, cutlery & glasses, I recommend real china, silverware & glasses. You save the environment by reducing the amount of litter & your guests really feel like your party is a special occasion. If you don’t have enough plates/glasses, have a few friends bring some along or visit a charitable thrift shop for some funky chic additions. However, if for some reason you must use disposable plates, cups, & silverware, go with recycled ones or with bamboo disposables which break down much faster than plastic.

4. Local catering – A very easy & tasty way to bring green to your party is to serve food produced locally. Using sustainable meat, veggies, & fruits is a great way to support your neighboring farmer. It also cuts down on fuel consumption & carbon emissions since your food isn’t coming via trucks or planes from a long distance. Visiting Local Harvest’s website or your local farmer’s market are going to be your best bets for finding local meat & produce. Going local at a farmer’s market also reduces packaging waste.

5. Eco-friendly beer & wine – What’s a party without beer & wine? “Torture” is the answer my craft beer enthusiast significant other, Erich, would tell you. If you are planning on serving adult beverages, try to find local vineyards and microbreweries to support. The wine & beer are tasty, cheaper since there is less shipping costs and helps the craft vintner & master brewer survive. It also cuts down on fuel consumption & carbon emissions since your beverages aren’t coming on trucks or planes from a long distance. You can find local breweries on http://www.brewpubzone.com/Microbrews.html

If you don’t have a local adult beverage source or prefer another alternative, try to find spirits which are sustainable. On the wine side, there’s Frog’s Leap Vineyard which is 100% solar powered and dry farms their vineyard, saving water. For beer, I recommend New Belgium who has seriously taken a multi –branched approach to making the planet better or Sierra Nevada who, in 2006, diverted 97% of their total waste from landfills through a combination of waste reduction and creative recycling. Go Sierra!

6. Cosmic cocktails –I love the fact that distilleries have finally started realizing their effect on our environment. Supporting those distilleries that make that extra green effort is a no-brainer. I try to support them every chance I get! Tru Vodka and Gin  & 4 Copas Tequila  are good examples of tasty organic spirits which help the environment. You can take advantage of fresh local ingredients & these organic spirits by producing one or two signature drinks for your soiree. Use organic vodka, fresh lemon & lavender to make a Lavender Lemon Drop, organic tequila & fresh lime to make a Margarita, or organic gin and fresh orange & lemon juice to make a Gin and Sin. Your guests will love these fresh, eco-tasty concoctions.

7. Low energy lighting – The lighting of a party can make or break the mood of any party. Luckily for us, Mother Nature provides mood lighting with zero harmful side effects. If you aren’t having your party during the daylight hours, you can still capture that solar energy for evening soirees. Hanging solar light strings from trees & using solar lanterns to mark paths adds a complimentary luminescent glow to any outdoor party. If your nighttime fiesta is inside, opt for long lasting fluorescent light bulbs or Soy candles which are clean burning and plant based. Something Wicked carries a great line of soy candles. As a note, they were an eco-friendly company before it was cool to be eco-friendly. I love supporting those businesses!

8. Music Du Monde – Party music is usually an area which isn’t really thought about as being a place when you can go pro-green, but there are ways to make this little niche of your party earth friendly as well. An easy way you can make a difference is to reusing someone else’s music. Visit a used CD & record store and pick out music that fits your party’s theme. Another eco-booster tip is you can support local artists by buying CDs from musicians in your area. CD Baby is a great resource for this.

Of course if recorded music isn’t your style, you can always go old school and hire a local musician to play your party. It’s a bit more expensive but supporting independent musicians is a great way to sustain the local music scene.

The third way to green recorded music is to try to find a singer or group that gives to and stands for green initiatives. From U2 and Sheryl Crow to Axis Mundi (whose latest CD I just can’t get enough of) and Harry Connick Jr., there are many artists to choose from.
9. Fresh Fragrances – Instead of spraying some heavily perfumed room spray which pollutes the ozone, scent your house naturally for your party. In spring, hyacinths & lilacs can make a garden party come to life. In fall, heat up a large pot of apple or orange peel with spices and let simmer during your party. In winter, scent pinecones with evergreen or cinnamon oil for a warm, welcoming feeling.

10. Recycle, recycle, recycle – I know this one is a party staple but this is one which never goes out of fashion. Have your recycling cart next to the trash can to make it easy for your guests. Another fresh take we use at our parties is donating our “empties”. If you know someone who dabbles in making wine or beer, offer to give them the empty glass bottles from the night. They can use them next time they brew a batch of adult beverages. Luckily for me, I live with one of the greatest craft brewers I know so our bottles are always recycled! The benefits are threefold. The bottles get used again, the brewer doesn’t have to buy new bottles & if you play your cards right, you might get some amazing local wine or beer for free in return. Talk about a win/win.

So those are my top ten suggestions for a great eco-chic party — cultivated over many, many moons of throwing green soirees for my friends, family, and clients. Hopefully, I’ve inspired you to “party greener” on some level. So go forth, you Gaia gods and goddesses, and save the planet, one party tip at a time!

Melissa Wagner is a DFW based Certified Event and Wedding Planner with Emerald Events & Weddings, who has coordinated numerous eco-chic events in Colorado & Texas. Her website is www.emeraldeventsintl.com She believes everyone deserves a fantastic party at least once in their life, regardless of race, shape, political views, hair color, or coffee preference.



Hello party chicas!  Well Erich finally popped the question & I said yes!  I know everyone says they’re surprised when it happens and now i know why.  I just kept asking him “are you sure, are you sure??”  Now that I know he is, lol, I’ll be blogging a lot about our wedding colors (Blush & black for the ceremonty) theme (French), issues (already popping up), highlights (did i mention I’m marrying the man I never knew was perfect for me?) and how I’m going to pull it off.   If you have any suggestions, please let me know- either here or on the business website www.Emeraldeventsintl.com So until next time,

I wish you, love, laughter & happily ever after!

(the newly engaged) Melissa



Here are some pics of Shannon and Ben’s Colorado wedding.  Being the maid of honor instead of the wedding planner gave this wedding a unique twist for me.  (mIght I mention that I’m pretty sure this was my last go-round as a Maid of honor as most of my friends are currently married)  I had to bite my tongue several times and remember a maid of honor doesn’t get to be as outspoken as a wedding planner does about details =o)  Still, I got to save the day a couple times for my bestest friend and I got to wear a kickin’ dress.  WWW.IGIGI.COM for all you bbw bridesmaids out there.  =o)  Anyways on with the pics,

Enjoy,

M.



Hola senoritas bonita,

With all the excitement of the wedding expo & our trip to Colorado, I forgot to put up pics from Shannon & Ben’s Mad Hatter Tea Party wedding shower.  This wedding was a little different than most of my weddings.  I was actually in the wedding as the maid of honor & not the planner.  Trying to remember that little fact was harder than I thought it would be. =o) 

For Shannon’s shower, I got the inspiration for the theme from a tophat Shannon used to wear in college all the time & a photo I found on a friends’s website.  Thus the Mad Hatter tea party idea was born.  =o)  I actually grew the wheatgrass and made the unbirthday cakes myself.  The teapots & other china I found at a Ross store for 75% off.  The butterflies & flowers I found in January at a Party City & held onto them until the shower.  Alicia had the brilliant idea of looping the butterfy strands from the center of the room to create the illusion of flight.  Enjoy & please feel free to comment here or on my business website www.emeraldeventsintl.com .

As always I wish you love, laughter & happily ever after!

Melissa



Greetings Ladies & Gents,

It’s been a busy 3 weeks!  First we exhibited in the Plano Bridal Show & then it was off to Colorado for Shannon & Ben’s western themed wedding.  In between all that wedding stuff, Erich & I explored the manly side of Colorado.  We hit several microbreweries, mining towns, South Park, Casa Bonita & Breckenridge.  More about those later.  Now we’re back in town and I’m eager to get to planning the weddings and events I have lined up!!

All right, gotta go unpack now. . . .

Wishing you Love, laughter & happily ever after,

M.

 

 Thanks to everyone who came out to see us at the Plano Bridal Show on the 14th.  We talked to over 300 brides and at least that many hubbies-to-be & eager mother of the brides.  Thanks to Sara, Leigh Ann, & my mom Judy for helping me cover the booth.  Also a big thanks to my significant other Erich & father Milton who hung around long enough to help with the heavy stuff before setting out for more manlier pursuits. =o)

Here are some photos:

I feel like Vanna in this pic!

I feel like Vanna in this pic!

Lining up to sign up for our give aways

Lining up to sign up for our give aways

A blushing bride-to-be and Judy

A blushing bride-to-be and Judy

A wedding goddess in the making

A wedding goddess in the making

Hook em, Horns!!  A UTD Bride

Hook em, Horns!! A UTD Bride

A groom-to-be signs up for more information

A groom-to-be signs up for more information

Leigh Ann & Sara, the wedding goddesses

Leigh Ann & Sara, the wedding goddesses

Brides, Brides and more Brides

Brides, Brides and more Brides



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